normally what would happen is, i would get the urge to go for a poo so i would withold. When I tried to go at home nothing happened, or it hurt too much, so I usually just ignored what my body was telling me. The stimulation of the vagus nerve triggers a drop in heart rate and blood pressure that can result in dizziness and lightheadedness, and in some people, fainting (vasovagal syncope). We almost had the same thing with my youngest but I was able to reel Dad in before it got too bad. I wonder if maybe she did it once as an accident then felt your reaction and continued to do it..is she testing and pushing limits in other ways??? She almost full on crapped in her underwear and then sat in it for 3 hrs. He was pooping, but only enough to relieve pressure and not enough to fully evacuate his bowels. I sh*t my pants right on the rock wall of one of those rock climbing gyms. Get a sweater to wrap around your pants, a long skirt or a change of clothes. The underside line is it causes irritation to the intestinal system. Hi again Anonymous, How did you find out about the support group, were you told to attend, or did you find out yourself? An hour later, they had dinner. I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I had been discovered early, before it became a habit. A common culprit for pooping in undies is constipation. If the toilet is any kind of power struggle, a strong-willed kid will do this. Russellingins11. The remainder of the walk was a slow, teary, squelchy one. Someone pooped (feces) their pants while in a dance-off! One mother on Mumsnet whose I avoided school toilets until I was 7 and sometimes walked home in slightly, or in one case rather more than slightly, messy pants. They do for me, as well as some of the other comments and experiences. this garden when I got the familiar feeling in my underwear that told me that Looking back, Im surprised the did not think of the consequences of my actions. Hi James, I meant to say she knew by personal experience. In the same way that you may Sure, babies and old people do it all the time. Many of the kids that have had Encopresis also have ADD or ADHD. did not need toys or other children or adults to have a fun time playing. When I was a child, I could never explain why I had pooed in my underwear instead of using the toilet. To which she had no answer and really didnt care what we were saying. Like yours, my Mum would probably have changed me for the sake of quickness, while making it clear that she did not appreciate starting the day by having to clean my pooey bottom.We definitely seem alike in many ways. S. ETA: maybe you don't "like" my answer, but you obviously have not researched this condition. toilet because shortly afterwards I felt that I had to go again. So - you've set an example about boundaries and given her the power back she seems to be craving. Instead of excusing myself and going to the toilet I decided to risk it. Obviously this wasnt the case. Is she not feeling well with a cold or something that is making her less aware? Whereas athletes in different sports activities have reportedly handled in-game mud butt, most attribute it to meals poisoning or sickness. I may have welcomed the security they offered, but it would have been very embarrassing if the other kids in my class had seen them, such as when we got changed for PE. However, it might have just come down to the simple fact that I had reached the front steps to my house before succumbing to this temptation, and had I lived a little further away, I would have done the shameful deed. They claimed they didn't force anyone, but I knew one guy who was really upset that he had to attend, because he swore he only had one accident and it would never happen again. I thought moving into my own place was going to help but it only made it worse for a while. what sort of answer would you have actually accepted from her? That came during a holiday with a friend and his family. discovered. Now she is wearing underwear she doesn't like. I pooped in my pants frequently from age 5 all the way up to 14. Are we really the ones that are the thinkers in society? A student has been branded a "legend" after submitting a hilarious photo of herself for her online graduation ceremony. and you wonder why she doesn't want to tell you when it happens? Like me my friends were impatient, so taking too long meant catching up with them, wherever we were going. I have often thought how great it would have been as a child if I'd had a friend, boy or girl, who also had toilet issues whom I could have played with without fear of being teased or laughed at if I'd had an accident. I was a little scared of getting caught by my workmates but thankfully nobody others not came to gym since somebody would surely smell what I had done. )it might seem very disgusting that i would put my hands down my pants but it was perfectly normal to me. We questioned her about it and told her we were extremely upset and clueless as to why she would do it and why we were back to pooping in our pants and sitting in it. Man, I would be PO'd too but I am wondering if she is just feeding off your reaction and the attention. 108K 313 5. Quora User Author has 5.5K answers and 817.3K answer views 6 mo "Would you poop your pants on purpose?" Really? Why suffer the strain of trying to hold it in? I think she was often too busy to clean me up and I agree with you there was an element of 'out of sight out of mind'. then i would put my hands in my pants to feel if there was any poo there. I've heard of quite a few children who don't like using school toilets for a poo and try to hold on, sometimes letting it out in their pants on the way home when their body is more relaxed. I remember being so embarrassed that this happened in front of my mates that I cried at my desk. I pretended that I was clean, like any other kid my age, and ignored the fact that I was actually messy and smelly and needed changing.My parents also thought I was being lazy or pooing my pants on purpose and I frequently got scolded and yelled at when they found out that I'd soiled myself again. First take her to the pediatrician & have When I reached my teens that happened a lot, especially on the weekends so I often spent quite a lot of the day wearing soiled underwear. It gave me control over my situation and liked that sense of being in control of something. favorite_border. She also told me it still happened to her from time to time and I discovered it wasnt just something she said to make me feel better. did I do it? Additionally Id had issues throughout year 7 with pooping my bedtime nappy and, again, out of ease (and frustration) in a morning my Mum would change me. i soiled until the age of 14. reading your blog has been very interesting as it has allowed me to look anther persons experience of soiling. my life, I pooed in my pants on purpose. How do you expect me to get these clean? Like most habits they become very hard to break. My logs were always big and very firm and without much odor, so I usually just kept wearing my underwear until I got home. i was the same as you, but i didn't get to wear pull ups to school only wore them to bed. When we got in the bus and I sat on my seat it was instantly clear how big the load was. With Tenor, maker of GIF Keyboard, add popular Men Pooping Their Pants animated GIFs to your conversations. that wasnt until quite a while after, so I supposed she was waiting to see what I did to resolve my situation, which was nothing. Stop that. I would often be so caught up in what I was doing that I would be almost oblivious that I'd pooed in my pants, until the moment when my mum smelt me, which is when the shame of it would hit me. I soiled them was not an option. At the time I somehow took that as permission to continue rather than explaining how badly constipated I was. 1:09. No one was better than anyone. I still clearly remember the I got through a week without soiling my underwear. Hi James, I think your experiences and story probably resonate with a lot of people that struggled with soiling when they were young. On the way home back to the place we were staying my friends sister made comments about a strange smell in the car but no one else seemed to suspect anything. The humiliation of being found out because Id pooed my pants still sits with me today. Nor did I dislike it. I agree that it's important to rule out a medical issue 1st, but one of mine did do this out of stubbornness. Another time, I actually pooped in front of one of my teachers. then i would carry on playing untill i got another urge to poo. It felt normal to me. Being unaccustomed to having poo in my pants, and thoroughly disgusted by the sticky feeling of it shifting back and forth against my buttocks as I walked along, I even pondered if the addition of moisture would alleviate that awful feeling. If she is doing it on purpose, I have no idea how to help, but DON'T ASSUME that this is the case. Peed my pink Calvin Klein in the bathtub this morning. Then we put her and her 3 yr old sister in a bath and she pooped a small amount, knew about it and waited til I found it and then looked at me like I was crazy for getting pissed. She tried to explain it to my mother, but she quickly realized that was a waste of time. Walk up to it and point the stain towards the air. Im ashamed to say that I had this problem from age 6 to 19 and still now occasionally have accidents in my pants I came across your blog because my 14 year old nephew has the same issue. Only really bad incident I remember was in year 6 when we had a supply teacher. Why would she be doing this? impossible. Jukin Media. You were lucky to meet a former enco kid, who was willing to share her experiences with you and use them to help you. Walking home from school with a full-on poop accident in your underwear is bad enough without adding urine to the mix! Then obtain your character evaluation. We would usually tell each other if we needed to go but neither of us ever wanted to go home because that usually meant the end of exploring. It came as quite a shock many years later to find out that I wasn't.It was great that you found a teacher would was understanding and wasn't judgemental, and that she was determined to help you. The day she made him get out of bed and play, ten minutes later he said " [my sister], I pooped my pants on purpose." They start learning something else and potty training sort of goes out the window for a short while. Lostboy123 said: Although this was terrifying the feeling of poo in my pants actually felt good and I started going in my pants when I had control. Show more Show more Master. The bathroom was next door to my bedroom, but I still avoided using it if I didn't want to stop playing or reading to do a poo.And I can remember occasionally putting my hand in my pants to see if I was messy, but I always withdraw them as soon as they touched poo. I would def have her tested for encopresis, have her checked. I remember one guy talking about the time he pooped in his snow pants on a ski trip. I crouched down and added to the waste in my mess. I imagine that was a difficult and embarrassing conversation. I took a "sportsman's chance" hoping it . Let Go Of The Problem Yes, the child going number 2 in his pants is a huge problem. panties. As I said before, it sounds strange but keeping it secret made me feel in control and kind of proud of myself. It's a bit like an older child sucking their thumb, but rather more extreme. however, when i did poo in my pants i always felt the poo leaving my bum and going in my pants/nappy. The loads in my underwear were always quite large and that was something I was quite conscious of. "JULIA!! High school was a very different story. Has anyone pooped or peed their pants on purpose, and is it okay to do it? SHE'S FIVE. Since my pants were already a mess, I thought, why not just finish the job? The longer the better! deserved the scolding I received. You can have constipation mixed with diarrhea (other conditions have this as well as some moms have mentioned) so I wouldn't rule out a medical cause - just because they go regularly doesn't mean there can't be compacted stool. LOL: POOPING AT SCHOOL. Now if an attempt to get to a restroom is made but not achieved, or enough forewarning is not given by your body, you would be ok to pee or poop your pants since you would be literally forced to do it against your own will. I made new friends and managed to move on from my previous experiences. my pants were messy. My cheeks burned and I sweated with embarrassment, but I said no. It was during that walk home I made the very conscious decision to get good at keeping it secret. One is that is was about control. I almost died of embarrassment. Fortunately, I had a strong bladder for a child and never wet myself.Apart from the one time outlined in the post above, I didn't deliberately poo in my underwear, but I can certainly understand why you chose to do this. Ease your child's constipation. I am sure that this must have made you feel less alone with your problem. That may end up in evacuation of bowel actions.. . result of my soiling habit. I was twenty one years old. I don't think looking at it like she is doing it "on purpose" is your best way of thinking about this situation. I know it's really hard to do that, but if you make a big deal about it you are giving her the negative attention she craves. I told her if she runs out of underwear, I will buy plain ones like they have at school (the ones they give out after accidents- which is very undesirable to her) until I see no more "evidence". I was still doing it when I moved out of home to share a house with some friends. I would assume that because I couldnt smell it, nobody else could. I too could be happy playing alone with nothing. However sometimes when I was desperate for a poo and I finally decided to crouch down and pushed the poo out in my underwear it felt nice. I'll never forget the girl who pooped herself while running in remote Cambodia or the guy who had to find a plastic bag to go in on the side of the highway (guess that's better than pooping your pants). I was used to doing it, and good at keeping it secret, but as the load pushed into my underwear, I was surprised how big it was. There are so many similarities with yourself and others. 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I loved the long summer In this blog he attempts to offer a child's view of encopresis (children messing their pants when they are past potty training age) 4. I understand how embarrassing this must have been for both of you, particularly if you were still having accidents when you were teenagers, and messing yourself at school, which I largely avoided.Pull-ups weren't invented when I was a child, but I doubt that my mother would have let me wear "protection" in any case. pants, changing me at my grandmothers home would have been nearly I was far too cornered with my personal hygiene even as a baby. Sorry - I know that might be tough to hear - but for her "not to care"? Everything was ok for the first couple of day until I realized I was very constipated and no matter how hard I tried nothing came out. It seems that old habits die hard when it comes to bowel movements. 3 Use the hand dryer. The problem with that was those opportunities almost always seemed to be during class or while I was out doing something on the weekend. Plzzz Heeeeeeelp! I woke up promptly at six am to my host mother knocking . Like you James I soiled my pants regularly as a boy (at school and at home). Little Girl Poops in Her Lunch Box Causing Mom to Throw Up. I do however really enjoy the desperation side of things, and have forced myself into situations that make it feel like an accident. They have a problem with their bowels that dulls the normal urge to go to the bathroom. Can I ask what happened when you soiled your pants at school, and if you had accidents when away from home, eg in shops or places of interest? One time, I pooped in my underwear during gym class, and left them in a bag in the locker room and forgot to dispose of them. himself anyway, so it was a case of in for the penny, in for the pound. Maybe that was the way I was thinking that It went on for months and was extremely frusterating but we got over it..until yesterday. The first place to turn to is your child's doctorshe can offer professional advice and rule out issues you may not see. interservice rivalry japan hoi4. Well I supposed Im just going to have to believe you and your old enough to deal with your situation yourself. said her mom. Once again, I Little. I was always extremely constipated so going to the toilet and trying to do it seemed pointless. I am fairly sure nothing like that existed at my school and if there was, I didnt know about it. Within a few months of starting high school, I was doing it just about every day. It was on the walk home over a few blocks from school when I felt the extreme discomfort of my full bladder. It was pretty clear. Hi Jason, Yeah the support group was definitely a relief! But I always managed to successfully hide them from being detected. It also meant there was only one a day to deal with. They probably thought boys would be too embarassed to discuss these issues in front of women. In the event youre not close to a toilet and need to go poop, you may attempt manipulating these muscle mass to carry it in till you may go:Clench your butt cheeks collectively. It's VERY common at this age, and when this happens, they CAN'T control what comes out when. Not only was someone finally listening to me I wasnt the only one and made me feel amazing. That was great but I also later discovered I wasnt as good as I thought. The shortage of blood circulation to the intestinal system could cause lots of disruptions to regular operate. p.p.s. Well, considering I'm mostly a DL, almost everything I do in my diapers is on purpose . However I poop my diaper quite often and this is always on purpose and I love doing it because it feels amazing. One of the curious aspects of my soiling problem was the fact that whenever my mum realised what I'd done, it wouldn't necessarily mean that I would then be cleaned up, in fact it was the norm for me to remain in my dirty pants for the rest of the day. Now I know that it wasn't just a fart!Just like you, I still had accidents in high-school, but was really good at hiding it. I told myself that if I let my bowels go I would get out at the next subway station and throw myself on the tracks, and put an end to the painful physical and emotional blows of such indignity to . hm. I had never felt so scared and humiliated in my life. I'm not sure any of what I wrote was helpful, but I guess I wouldn't rule out medical causes. that was the type of thing which went through my head. The correct answer is: True. She's not an adult. bornkiller Spinster wrote: The issue is pervasive sufficient that in 2017, two bystanders on the New York Metropolis Marathon brandished handmade indicators. a lack of water. done. Why would a 12 year old poop his pants? - i.e. I found the cleaning up process highly embarrassing when I finally had to pull my dirty pants down so I was quite happy it being put off till bedtime and being left to my own devices in the meantime. This happened to me. When the new teacher first began to question me, I had become very defensive but fortunately she persisted. From the age of 14 though I was deeply bothered by it. Ruby Coles, who received an honors bachelor of social work, admitted she . That was quite a while later and she questioned me why I hadnt bothers going to the toilet after and why it looked like I had done the entire load in my underwear. CARL DE SOUZA/AFP through Getty Photographs. It just slipped out around the blockage. 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